I do really sympathise with how you feel.. I am the same - each week I resign myself to being really strong and not pushing/moaning/critizing or saying anything negative to my H, but I end up doing something... It is so hard..... I just cant help but open my mouth sometimes.....need some tape to shut me up...
I just try to drill it into my head that before I am tempted to say anything i ask myself ' is what i am going to say help or make things worse?
I think if we could really discipline ourselves then the whole situ with our partners would be resolved alot quicker.. But we only human, and at end of the day we are doing the best we can at the moment...
