P.S. This doesn't mean invalidating your own feelings. It is perfectly reasonable for you to feel insecure and have doubts about her activities. It will take a lot of time and work to build that trust.
OH SURE, now you throw that in AFTER my somewhat less than calm response to your post. Thank you for that, and as usual, re-reading your post, I am getting a little more out of it. If nothing else, your posts should teach me to wait longer in a situation before firing back. lol.
