I would only add to this: I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better by the Lunbergs. A very useful book with regard to validation. Very straight forward and useful in any interpersonal communication.

Wait, I didn't see Divorce Remedy on your list GH....is that part of your personal reading list? I found it more useful for our particular sitches because it does have a section (albeit somewhat small) devoted to infidelity and other common issues (depressed spouse, passion meltdown, etc.)

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