Quote: Are you an 'agenda' type person or spur of the moment? Maybe try the opposite on this trip. Unless of course it's a guided tour - I'm sorry if I'm not up to speed on the finer details. But, you still have the potential do 180's while you are there.
And, don't ask the status of the A. While enquiring minds want to know, DB advises against it. Act "as if"....maybe re-read the parts of DB significant to your sitch prior to your departure for a refresher course. Our egos and our pride cause us to do stupid things we deem as our right. DBing feels unnatural to most of us, but it makes so much sense. Don't ask, don't beg, act fun, friendly and happy go lucky - especially apt when in Ireland with the luck of the Irish and all that!!
Nice post!
I've thought this before many times during my sitch, reading things here and elsewhere, etc., and the one thing that always seems to enter my head is Groundhog Day with Bill Murray.
If you've never seen it, rent it and watch it. A "Zen Twilightzone" movie so to speak, a lesson in how we can plan, connive, whine, manipulate, even be able to read the future and scheme around what we know, and all we end up doing is spinning our wheels and coming off as fake and phony and manipulative. But when we just "let go" and let spontaneity take over -- no expectations, just do good things, let it come naturally and maybe some good things will happen. But if not, you can still take solace in the memories of you having a good time anyway.
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