Controlling does not mean you tell a person what to do, but rather that your moods set the tone of the day/family/life and you KNOW IT and USE IT. Oh Always, have you hit the nail on the head. I'm not happy things are not going my way so........ I'll be a sullen, miserable pri*k. If you don't like it, do what I want, make me happy. Dammit it's all about me, me, me.