Ok, so first day on new lifestyle change went well. I stayed well within my point range. I am determined to do this. I want to wear my bikini again this summer.

H and I didn't talk a whole lot last night about the situation of him going away and me going away overnight. He had his test yesterday and although he passed, it was incomplete due the regional supervisor not doing his assessments, etc. H is VERY frustrated. Since he started this job, he has had no guidance, no support from the current general or regional manager. He is very overwhelmed and ready to throw the twowel in. The kicker was, he has to go in today to meet with the regional manager for the assessment at 10 am. The general manager said "I'll meet you there at 12". Well......H has already put in 50+ hours this week. Now, on his one day off he has to go in. To top it off, he is going to have to hang around for an hour or so to wait for the general manager.

<Sigh> What makes this so hard for him is that he had another job offer at the same time he had this one. The other job offer paid more money, but this offer was something different then he's been doing. He kicks himself now for taking it. I really didn't know how to respond, so I told him I was sorry that he is unhappy with his job and whatever he decides to do I will support his decision. But, a positive came out of it too. He doesn't want to train for another job, then move. So, now he is really ready to do what has to be done here to sell the house and move. Then he can train for another job in NH. I was thrilled with that outcome to say the least.

So, that's my story. All in all I am feeling good and things seem to be good. What more could I want?

~SE

I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.


Me-32
WAH-35
DD-11
DS-4
H left 11-03
Piecing- 12/04
WAH again- 03/07
Married 12 years
Divorce final May 15, 2007