New Year, New Life, New Me...New Thread!

[StrongEnough]

I think I had a brainstorm!! Or...just a brainfart. But, I see opportunity here. I have been pondering over the situation all day. I have come up with a reasonable plan for this.

H is afraid that his going away for a week will cause trust issues between the two of us, and I am worried that one night away where ex b/f works will cause trust issues. So...if we can negotiate to take our trust for one another only one minute or one day at a time. i.e. While he is away, I will take it day by day and tell myself that I am going to give him my trust for that day. Not worry about a whole week's worth up front. At the same time, he can trust me for an hour or two at a time....or however long he can...while I go. (If we can't get a sitter).

If we can do this, it is a step forward on starting to trust each other again. Does that sound like a resonable plan or is it just plain stupid? Any thoughts???

~SE