New Year, New Life, New Me...New Thread!

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Always- Yes, it is quite a change. He called, got all the info for his week away. Come to find out the school is only twenty minutes away. He said his stomach was in knots because he fears what going is going to do to us. He is worried that I am going to ASSume he is doing something wrong. I guess that's something else that needs to be discussed. I understand you on how I went about the conversation, and truth be told, that's pretty much how I would normally go about doing it. So, the only real change was H's reaction or lack thereof. I am sure he is definitely against me going but doesn't dare say so.

W2S-
1. Do you deserve to go, and want to? Yes and yes.
2. Are you abandoning your family in the street? no
3. Do your kids deserve a little bonding time with dad? absolutely!
4. Does dad need a little time to feel your absence? Again, absolutely!
5. Would you do the same for him? Hmm, I would have to say that I am not sure. Only because of the ex b/f. If he were to go away for a night where an ex g/f is...not sure I would be too keen on the idea. Would I stop him?? No, I really have no right to do so if he felt that was something he needed. Hey...I'm on to something here....!
6. Will you do the same? Suggest he do something? I can suggest it and have, he chooses and has usually chosen not to go anywhere. He has no friends to speak of.
7. Will you and the kids benefit from a short break? I know I sure would!
8. Will it hurt the family financially? No
9. Will it make the economy stronger? The way I spend $$ there....ha, I should own the place!
10. Will you tell us your room number?
Maybe.....but you would have to show up with lots of champagne, roses and more champagne!!


~SE