Oops, I guess I overlooked that bit of info ...about ex-bf working there. Hmmm...that is a tough one.

I had something similar in my sitch. The OW worked in the mall, and H would always do his shopping there even though he could very easily shop here in our town. We only live about 15 minutes away from the mall anyway, but yeah, it still bothered me because there was that possibility that he might see OW, and I have to admit, that had me scared to death. I was so afraid that something would start up again between them. I felt very threatened. That's why I mentioned on my thread that if H is going to go there in the future, he needs to tell me so that I am aware of it. I can be "prepared" for it. It's much easier to deal with if I know about his plans, his intentions ahead of time. Understand?

I would still keep the arrangements but only if H is able to go with you. If he can't, and he is showing that he's feeling threatened by this, then perhaps you should consider doing something else for me-time.

How about a spa retreat?

Valerie

"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown

"Piecing is not for the faint of heart." ~ sage