Whew! you've had quite a strong enough day! A few thoughts...
1) Can't repair and paint and take of S2 at the same time - is there a sitter or relative or daycare S2 can go for half a day while you work?
2) H does nothing to help you. Didn't you just talk about Friday when you helped him with the basement? got it all cleaned out and cleaned up?
3) "Me time" - does he think Me Time only counts as getting out of the house? and you went and took a nap, which there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, but he may think it doesn't count an Me Time.
4) He's dragging his feet? back to point 2.
5) Do you talk to H's face like you talk about him here? calling him names,etc??? or is this venting here?


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Riding the trail less traveled.