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[StrongEnough]

Yes, I see what you mean. He is the needy one. He needs to control me in order to feel that his position in my life as my H is secure. Without, it raises his doubts, which raises his anxiety and ends with him lashing out.

I wasn't referring to a physical seperation either when I speak of detachment. It IS trying to seperate myself from the drama but it is difficult with someone who is controlling. In many ways, they block all your efforts to detach.

LMAO...OOPS........I'm free now...