I think detachment is necessary, where ever one is in this journey. Why?
I see detachment not as distancing ourselves form anyone or anything, but establishing our own autonomy, our own sense of self.
We decide not to be needy any more. We don't need another person to define us. We are free from the control that others had over us, because we gave it to them and now we're taking it back. We take responsiblility for our own happiness.
