What you have assumed about me is WRONG! Unfortunately there is a segment of the church whose view on sex is NOT God's view on Sex...Gods' view of sex is expressed in the Bible.
NEWS FLASH::::!!!!! Not all "churchdom" has the view that you expressed To assume so shows your lack of knowledge. The Song of Solomon (it is in the Bible) is an erotic book..whose poetry talks about fondling breasts, making romantic love, and yes, even oral sex!
ORTHODOX Jews teach their boys how to make love. Get the book "Dummies..about the Jewish Religion". The chapter on Sex is quite good! They have their teen boys under the bed while having sex to hear HOW to make LOVE WELL to a woman.
If I were you I wouldn't go by your "feelings" as those that you have about me are incorrect. There is a segment of the church that is "victorian" and prudish about sex. But those people DO NOT represent God's view of Sex. Just some view proported by some person.
I also think that you should learn to "listen" as well as read. You say things that I say and feel that I have never said, nor do I. You add way too much between the lines, that was never said. Don't assume...ask people questions about where they stand if you are unclear.
My view about porn is based on:
FACTS that I have READ! STATISTICS that I have SEEN. STUDIES that have been DONE.
That information is all over the internet for people who care to educate themselves on the subject.
They have their teen boys under the bed while having sex to hear HOW to make LOVE WELL to a woman. 
