I don't know where I blamed men for it. Where? Every person is responsible for their own actions. Including women.
I think things are being read into what I have written that I did not say. Assumptions based on reactions. You quoted me but I don't understand how your question has anything to do with my quote. Help me out here.
I have only endeavored to say that porn DOES hurt relationships and people. There are studies to PROVE it.
And if people choose to do have porn as a part of their life...they may. It is not my place to criticize them for doing so.
RAther than accepting porn as "normal" it might be of use to those who care to or are open minded to discover than porn hurts the women participating in it...as well as viewers of it.