You said (Let me ask you this… why should your hesitancy bother you? Are you feeling pressure from me (or other men), that any “feminist” comment you make will trigger a response? Do you feel like big brother is watching you?)
Simple answer....NO. I do, say what I want regardless of how you react or what you will say.
("So you see, to me this is about women’s insecurity, but trying to make it the man’s responsibility. Sorry, I won’t own that one.")....and that, IMPO...is a load of crap Cobra. You are certainly entitled to your opinion and your view....we definitely don't agree though.
You see such blatant double standards from your perspective Cobra.....women do too, equally so from our side. Chances are the two genders will never come to see this the same way.
Also, I wasn't so much saying that just because a man looks at a swimsuit model that "he" is objectifying her.....a man is going to look, I understand that. However, you missed the point completely in what I was saying...that our society...has had a history of portraying men and women in certain manners.....very differently....and that because of that it has become generally more accepted that men will view "porn" an women won't/don't.
