Eh hem...Cobra, excuse me, may I share the soapbox for just a minute?
Perhaps what Nicegal meant was that she FEELS it is degrading to her (as a woman)...
Sorry, Nicegal, trying to help you out here. Although I do feel somewhat put off by the images of perfectly thin, gorgeous women in next to nothing, and who will do anything..I feel as equally put off by Victoria Secret commercials. I do not feel that it is anymore degrading to women than ripped men in just their nickers spralled out over the 12-months of a "Firefighter of the Month Calendar" is to men. There are sterotypes for both sexes, and I am sure most men feel degraded, put-down, inedequate, etc... over some of them.
Personally, I don't feel that H is wishing he had one of those women, what he looks at isn't the perfect women, it's the avg. "housewife" who posts her pic on the web. If anything, knowing that is what he looks at, is REASSURING to me that my imperfect body is attractive to him. That is not degrading to me. What IS degrading to me is that he used the computer/porn as a way to avoid an intimate sexual relationship with his wife.
Okay, Cobra, the box is all yours again. Thanks for sharing.
Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
