Haven't posted yet, but been keeping up with your story when I have time.
I forgot the exact percentage, but it is Very High, like 85% of men to view porn. I'm way too LAZY today to post links....but there are sites that cite many of its dangers.
One being that it is like a drug that men will use as an escape rather than deal with issues....relationship & others too. Another is that being a drug, users want more and more. They spend more time in fantasyland than learning to deal with the real world. They can get to a place that their wife won't measure up.
Plus, it is downright degrading to women....and makes us objects!
Just because "everyone does it" means we should accept it? So if everyone decides to jump off a cliff I should too? Learn about it. Reasearch the studies. Size it up. See its dangers for both men and women. It is not a harmless pasttime!
Guys are visual! Porn turns them on! It doesn't mean that it is a good way to satisfy the craving.....statistics have shown that in the long run it hurts relationships.
I say........order some great lingerie and costumes, dance on a pole, light the candles, send the kids to G & G for an evening and use that 3 hours in a PRODUCTIVE way!
