I owe it all to you...thanks for helping me thru this. I am glad I took the plunge and installed that software...I am glad I did not confront him about it and I too and not willing to be someone I am not anymore.
Something odd C said to me yesterday. "All men look at porn." Hearing this from two male friends, two female friends AND my mother AND the MC, what the F? Are we so desensitized as a socitety that it's okay for guys to do this on a regular basis? As much as I am accepting this, there is something unsettling about it as well. Do you think your H will ever be "allowed" to look at porn again, with out you there?
Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
