Yes, I am pretty mad that he is doing this and depriving me of a physical relationship with him. Right now, I don't know if I am going to confront him. I dont know what the plan is. I do know that he is really shy about talking about these things and I am using the info to learning about the things that turn him on. I am trying to use this in a positive way, to get what I want. If I can be more of what he wants and it improves our SL, than so what if he looks at porn? This is all contingent to whether or not he continues to just look, isn't chatting and our SL remains what I would like it to be. This is the plan today anyway. Stuff like this just throws you for a loop, my feelings change about a dozen times a day.
Anyway, I wish for you that you had the ability to see what he was doing. But Gel said that if you suspect, than he probablly is. The only thing you can do is just talk to him about it, or the next time you ML, show him the side of you that is dying to come out!
Good Luck! Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
