RE darlingnicky So, I started asking him if there were certain things he'd like to try (going off of some of the stuff I found he was looking at).
Good. Now don't let him know in any way you were looking at his internet activities. (WWII strategy that works in relationships too) It is probably better he does not know where you get the ideas you want to try out.
I don't get why someone would get upset if the idea came from a book but not if it was thought about by an individual partner, but some people think if it is not original, it does not count. Now I suppose I have to invent a new math to add 2 plus 2 and come up with 4 to keep those people happy. Just kidding.
And don't do anything that freaks you out just to please him.
