I'm glad you are in a better place about it. I wish I were where you are. I don't know for a fact what, if anything my H is doing. I am still living with suppositions. However, if I knew for a fact, that my H was mb instead of ml with me (especially if it were a lot) I would be extremely angry. I can't find out with any software because my H is the network administrator therefore, I can't download software onto his machine. He does that mainly to protect work files from the kids when they are on the computer. Anyway, I will just have to suck it up and talk with him about it.
As for your H. Do you plan to confront him about the porn? Do you plan to ask that he modify or change his behavior in any way? For example, that he view it with you instead?
