Thank you for the book suggestion, I will check it out. As far as what he's doing to "work on it". I don't know. I haven't asked and he hasn't offered to say what his problem is or what he's doing to "fix" it. He won't talk to me and he won't talk to a MC. We have been thru rounds of this too...I actually read one of my posts from July and I couldn't believe that I am still putting up with this. Anyway, I am afraid to keep pushing and asking, and trying to dig deeper. In the past, the more I push the more he pulls away. I know this answer of his, (this week) is meant to placate me. So that I leave him alone for awhile. The truth of the matter is that I am not ready to go head to head on this yet. I have some strong feelings about divorce and being alone. I have to be ready to act on my threats of "i'm leaving"...be really ready to follow thru if it comes to that.
Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
