NEED YOUR ADVICE, PLEASE

[StrongEnough]

Always-

I don't believe your C gave you a % as to the chance of this working. I'm sorry I just don't agree with her. I don't think it's her place. However, she gave some good advice as to sitting back and taking care of you, while lovingly giving H his space.

I think everything you listed is great. And, just think, you are getting three weeks away for YOURSELF. Don't worry about H, what he's doing, thinking, saying or feeling. Take the time to worry about what YOU are doing, thinking, feeling and saying. Make those three weeks about Always getting time to sort herself out.

I do believe you are right as to what you posted on my thread. We both have to take back control of our lives and move forward and upward. Other people can join us, or stay behind. Either way, we both know these are things we have to do for ourselves.

You posted you wanted to work out more. Are you trying to lose weight? If you are, maybe we can have an accountability thing here. Post our weekly loss/gain, time spent exercising, etc. Are you interested?

As long as we both stay on the paths we have chosen for ourselves, you know as well as I that we will both be fine no matter what happens!!

~SE