What are the specific things that she keeps referring to that she can't let go of, is resentful about?
I'd continue with giving her space, not getting hyped up about deep R talks, listening to her wholeheartedly, etc, but I'd also try to learn more about what it is that she thinks is a blocker for her...and then start to figure out how to work on those behaviors.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
