Have faith in us, that we might have some brains to understand what you're talking about;
Ah, FD, I would NEVER underestimate the brain power of the people here. You all are some of the smartest people I have ever come across.
How and why do you move from here to there, would you say?
Well, truthfully, that part was never part of my vision. I would gather that the movement happens when we start to accept a new set of rules or learn a new set of skills. The movement is always associated with restriction of some sort. The kind of restriction that comes from discipline. I think we can be forced INTO the "in between" space but we cannot be forced to the other side. I will think more about this and post tomorrow. I am a writer, but this kind of writing is NOT my forte. I'll do my best to expand on it.
I haven't posted in a bit either...I think I'm having GH withdrawals, LOL. I'll be really excited to hear from him and see how his trip was.
For my own part, not much new to report. I really think things are back on track with my W and I....I don't believe for a second that we are totally out of the water, but I think the burden now is on me to approach each day with a beginner's mind and do what I can to make each day a happy one. Looking at things as objectively as i can, I can see a lot of my old W these days....she has been making efforts to spend more time with me, talking about future events, etc. So no complaining.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
I noticed there was very few new posts while I was gone. WTH? I assure you it has NOTHING to do with my being gone...but... I'm back so everyone (including me, the worst of you lot) can go back to having no lives and posting so much that they don't actually have time to work on themselves or their marriages...lol. Anyway, great to hear you are doing well. I expect to read more soon! I will post more on my thread sometime. I am just tired now (jet lag) and need a bit to gather my thoughts.
