Holy friggin' deep GH! Actually, in all honesty, a very unique perspective and completely appropriate I think. We all must go through that constricted spot to get to the "other side" of our relationship and, the way I see it, we are both at that point now. For our repsective spouses, it isn't easy getting from one side to the other, and for us, we hate to move through that to see what is on the other side simply because we don't want to fix what isn't broken (well, obviously it is to the WAS)

Thank you for sharing...very, very deep.

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu