Perhaps I should have been more clear...."denial" was quoted because I understand that a total denial of feelings is not what I'm looking for....I cannot deny my feelings, maybe I should have phrased it more of a less focus on the sitch. In short, I understand what you said (wrote)...implmentation is the key!
Jabez, thank you so much for the link, that may prove very helpful!
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
