Thank you, both of you. Its the little pep talks like these that keep motivating through the hard times. It really does take a different perspective and I guess I'm trying each day to adopt that. Yes, it is a choice...and if I choose to try and make things better, I must learn to live through the hard times as well. GH, I really like your take on it, instead of focusing of "X has really got me down"...I need to look at it from the perspective that I let so and so get me down. It squarely places the responsibiltiy for my own well being in my hands.


"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu