No doubt about it, I have recognized that about myself for some time. Again, its not that I have been the only one...in fact, my W is the queen of insinuatioin as opposed to directness, but that's neither here nor there...hopefully its an issue we both can address when the time comes. For my part, I have been attempting to be more direct in my wants and feelings. My major problem is that I attempt to do this too often. Like this morning, I haven't told her anything new, she knows that I feel hurt by her actions....so what's the point of brining it up all the time? Secondly, yes....I do revert now and again to the old way of thinking ahead and scripting out everything...if I do "x" she will say "Y" and then I'll say "z"...all designed to get to point A.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
