Yes, once again the ugly demon Rob has reared its head. Last night and this morning I told my W in no certain terms that I didn't feel that it was right, fair, etc for her to be telling me that she wants to try and work this out and that this is where she wants to be, while continuing to keep OM in her life. They still keep in contact and to me, or at least my "old" way of thinking, how can she be giving this a chance when she isn't dropping the rope on OM? This has bothered me, but on the other hand, I do understand that it may have something to do with insecurity, feelings, etc. Before anyone gets the 2x4 out, please know that I understand that I KNOW what I am doing is counterproductive, its just stopping the behavior before it happens.

Well, there it is. Time to pick up the pieces again and try to make the best of the sitch.

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu