ah the limitations of the written word.

Corri, I thanked you for your cheering up (and the rest of the girls also.)

I know your humor. You were right my crap is mine, hers is hers.
I much prefer your floggings, there not nearly as painful.

I tease and poke people here that open up, I can take it as well as give thats all I was referring to.
Gosh if the BB's strong woman cant put some smack down on me, Ill never find that hard headed woman I am looking for.

I refuse your apology. <thwack with the wiffle ball bat>
Take those gloves off. It tickles. <thwack again>

You have not casued me any additional pain. To the contrary you have brought me many laughs and kept me on my toes.


I said it when I first got here, be honest with me, no one can lash me harder then I do myself.

karen and HP,

I have much much appreciation for this board. (where is the paypal collection plate?)

Im not in that much pain, just getting some things out, (and as I said at the beginning of this thread, coming out of my cave. So maybe Im putting aside some of my control and checking it out here. because I like you people, and you cant really hurt me. I can just close my computer and run away if needs be. ) So. (again) I really appreciate your not clumsy, not lame cyber offerings of comfort.
Us guys suck at receiving. Goes against our genetics.

what if you give the control freak within a rest for a while?

You gonna join me? Im single now in a metropolis full of sharks, snakes and users. So..... no.
Good things have come from this failure, they always do.

hmmpf. perspective. pbttthhhh. your right.

what if this was just the way it had to happen?
obviously. It is what is.
I know what your hinting at though.
NO.
you would have swept it under the rug and made some lameass attempt at a Fresh Start

No. We.... I was working at changing our R with Marriagebuilders/counseling- wanting to at least.