Quote: <bf takes of hair shirt and puts down flog.> <corrie picks up flog and whap whap whaps BF somemore.>
No. No. No. NO. NO!!!!!!!
I in no way meant to even ATTEMPT to throw stones at you. I am NOT criticizing you, nor do I want to make you feel bad or worse.
What I am trying to do, have been trying to do with you, is to help you SEE that even you are human. Not perfect. I was trying to come across with some humor, but obviously I fell flat on my face. I am so sorry.
Quote: No. I engaged in zero abuse, and zero neediness. I only opened my mouth to validate, and stayed dark. Period. I acted completely congruent with how most any man would react to being cheated on.
<nod> Okay. (saying that very gently). Okay. I'm backing away.
Quote: Im a big believer that we all get what we deserve.
<shake head>. Okay.
I'm going to shut up. I don't think I am helping here at all.... but please believe me, I was not attempting to flog you... I wouldn't do that. I think I took the wrong tact, and I apologize for causing you additional pain.
