Well, talk away BF. No one likes to be given rewards (good advice on the forum in this case) all the time. We need to give rewards (advice) too. Sometimes it is easier to see and react to others situations than our own.

Thank you OG. Your right. added that to my list: things to work on. needing others. letting others help.

Your right about the drama. I see a lot of similarities between my early R with x, and the one fools fool pointed out. I really like those highly emotional women, but then expect them to change. my x was well behaved? settled dwon with the testing fro a long time there. When A started it was like she had been saving up drama for 4 years, and preparing new and highly advanced testing.
Whew, did I fail. LOL. hahahah.
Im . Since I do choose those types, Im gonna have to step up and keep dealing with the tests.