Hey BlackFoot, there is young fellow in desperate need over on the "I Need help for my martial problems board. I think your ideas and insight could be of use to him. How about taking a look and give him one of your insights???

http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1102778&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1&PHPSESSID=