Sorry Lil - somebody made that comment. I've been in lurkage - not exactly current. Someone was responding to Bf's sadness in the "don't let her be the one who got away" frame. I was just saying that she isn't the one who got away she is the one who chose to go away. Never say never but I'm just saying - right now Bf regroup, go ahead and analyze but don't rewrite history or allow sadness/regret to color things. Bf and exW may yet have some things to talk about but not until each knows who they are and what happened. Anyway Lil, sorry if I misattributed.
