I guess having recently experienced it with someone else, I must be associating it with OM (?) Not sure.
We seem to be in a simular place on this one. Sometimes I wonder if the reason I cannot be content with my H is because of what I had with other man that makes my M seem lacking something. With me it was not in the line of sex it was in the line of friendship and common interest and just a general feeling of completion. Now that I don't have that again in my life I find myself in a place harder to except it.
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As always I must have different perception of your situation then others. I keep seeing it read like others are thinking you are trying to play into your H's fantasies and create a home bound fantasy life. But what I see is through it all you have held back on some of your own sexuality in the past. And now while you and your H are going through this growth of exceptance you are barr none holding little back. I see this is a releasing and exceptance point not just for your husband but for yourself also. Both of you have been freed up to be who you are. But again this is just my opinion and gosh knows I have been wronge in the past.
