Just curios. How long have you been in the resentment stage? Why are you hanging on to it? What's it doing for you? (I'm asking this in my very gentle female voice, not my club carrying Corri voice). Very contradictory to your Zen musings/mantras... un-taoist of you... got any thoughts?
Quote: Also, I need to know the truth as to OM situation.
Hire a detective and get the question answered for yourself so you can deal, one way or the other. Unless you don't want to know, which is cool... but get rid of the obsession.
Quote: if I want an R I will have to now lead the peace talks.
Why can't you sleep? Anxiety? Depression? Can't shut off the mental images/voices?
Do you want the R? If you do, go get your wife. If you don't know yet, I get it.
Answer if you want, don't if you can't. Not pushing.
My D is supposed to be final one week from Friday. The one thing I will always remember is when I told him I wanted out, he said to me, "I don't have time for this."
