karen-

Thanks for your perspective. I just don't want to offend anyone of a different or non-relgious viewpoint.

- Phooey. Offend away, I say! Why? Current events. Because I think it is abso-fing-lutely asinine there are embassies being burned down and people hurt/killed, threatened to be killed over some stupid cartoon from a Danish newspaper. WTH? How about, "Forgive them for they know not what they do"? Then drop it? Sheesh. Drives me crazy. Lighten up folks. Lots more important stuff going on out there.

My H doesn't drink coffee or tea but I am guilty as sin of ascribing motives to H's behaviors without asking, putting thoughts in his head and words in his mouth and worshipping at the totem of the "perfect R" in my head. Wonder what H's perfect R looks like? What if this is it?

- I have to commiserate here, Karen. Will hit a bit on this maybe more on your thread. You're good to see this. I didn't. I saw x pulling away and I chased....smothered. Put thoughts in head, meanings to actions. I admit it.

-Stigmata-

The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge;
the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.

-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-

...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ

-Stigmata-