Hope you are OK hope. I have been reading about the phone calls. W does something similar and talks about OM, and his son. I use a psychological technique where I will not look at her, or stop whatever I was doing for her, and slowly move away. She gets the point, and stops talking.
I think the boundary thing may work too, but I don't want W to stop talking to me either.
---------------------------
My current Thread
2nd Time: Learning IV
iwb61@verizon.net
Thanks for posting. To clarify the issue, my H. used to take calls from ow in front of me, but I called him on it, told him it was disrespectful, and he stopped. I think he was surprised I stood up to him on this. That was back in Nov. The issue recently was us being on the phone (him on a landline) and ow calling his cell, and he put the landline phone down, asking me not to hang up, while he took the call on his cell. I could hear him talking with her. So, this was not "in front" of me, per say, and he even got back on the phone w/me and said he would need to turn his cell off or something.
I agree, boundaries.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
I'm ok; posting over in MLC land lately. My H. seems to have so much in common with the other WA's there, so I've been trying to learn more about this. Thanks for checking with me!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
