Thanks for posting. To clarify the issue, my H. used to take calls from ow in front of me, but I called him on it, told him it was disrespectful, and he stopped. I think he was surprised I stood up to him on this. That was back in Nov. The issue recently was us being on the phone (him on a landline) and ow calling his cell, and he put the landline phone down, asking me not to hang up, while he took the call on his cell. I could hear him talking with her. So, this was not "in front" of me, per say, and he even got back on the phone w/me and said he would need to turn his cell off or something.
I agree, boundaries.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
