So nice of you to post; please keep in touch more often!
thank you for the tanning advice. I appreciate that. I don't want to put my health at risk.
thanks for your opinion about my H., too. It helps to know that there is "something" (MLC) going on with him that is a real issue, something that I can try to understand and learn more about. I know I can't help him, but I can try my best to understand him and what to expect along the path.
H. is pulling back again; I haven't heard from him since Mon. night. I'm hoping just leaving him alone right now is best, although I wanted to see how he's been feeling this week (he was sick).
Yes, this sure does take a toll on a person. I'd like to come out of this with my marriage intact but I no longer pin any hope on that. I just don't know what will happen but I have been getting a lot of advice in the MLC forum and a lot of folks there see positives for me.
Thanks again.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
