Re: the tanning, yikes. I am not planning to go that often, but that is scary! I don’t even remember reading any kind of warning about the beds causing skin cancer.

my dermetologist said they are worse then the sun - guess I could always opt for the spray paint tan lol~

I spent 3 days very upset but convincing myself that he had reached the point that he wanted this to be over, and I needed to accept it. When I got back, I felt ready to face it. But then he backtracked on it

for the 2yrs I've been at this mine has ALWAYS back-tracked when it came down to the D - he would drop the same hints, not ready, not sure, no reason to hurry..........so it does leave us in limbo which is very frustrating because we know the M has so much potential.....if we could only convince them of that!