I'm afraid you are right. And it's at the expense of this little girl's feelings. I think my H. is using the bond with her to make himself feel better; she does not know her real father and o.w. claims my H. is the only man she has ever really known well. So he feels like he is filling a void in her life.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
