I feel the same way you do: H said she was “unwanted company” on Sunday but he didn’t want to be rude to her. What? He has no problem being all kinds of rude to me.
It frustrates me that H. is blind to see what o.w. is doing in regards to her child. If he would just stop and think about it for a moment…what kind of woman (who’s not even divorced herself) would allow her child to call another man “daddy” when she hasn’t even met his family yet? H. says they mutually agreed not to continue their R. but I don’t believe that. She doesn’t want it to be over. If he really does, then he’s worried about hurting her now, after admitting to me that he used his R. with her to get him through a difficult period in his life. Maybe there is more guilt to be had by H. because he used o.w.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
