Hi. To answer your question, we do not have children, H & I. He was never really overly interested in having children. I mean, let's just say that if it happened, we would have been happy, but if not, we were ok, too. H. never really seemed all that comfortable around kids before; to see him so attached to o.w.'s child is a great shock to me and a 180 for him. Since his affair, he has now told me that he does want his OWN kids, but he doesn't want to get involved with someone who has children already because if the R. doesn't work out, it makes things very complicated. If you have any insight, please feel free to share it!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
