Thank you for posting. Shocked, please don’t apologize for being upset when you posted! I know you are dealing with an awful situation right now. I keep praying for you.
I do remember the days when we couldn’t bring up our R. It seems more often than not now, it’s H. who brings it up. And then sometimes it’s not even to talk about us; it’s to talk about him and o.w.! How crazy is that?
I went home on my break this morning to check on puppy, and H’s car was at the house. ????? I went inside, and he was sleeping in the family room with puppy on the sofa. He heard me come in but was really sleepy so he didn’t get up and we didn’t really talk. I just left him alone and did a few things before coming back to work. He is off today and still not feeling well. I found it interesting that he chose to come over to our house to sleep instead of going back to where he lives. He did say we could go to the gym later tonight, so perhaps he’s avoiding driving all the way back to where he lives only to come back to get me later.
Over the course of the last week, he has been SO incredibly back and forth about everything. People say to watch their actions, and not to listen to their words.
Right now the man who told me he’s not coming back is at our house asleep on our sofa.
Last edited by hopefloats7; 02/27/0603:11 PM.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.