Thanks, Alison, and I’m sorry for misunderstanding.
I know I need to exhibit more patience right now, but darn it, I’m human and I’m so frustrated with this situation. I will try to do better, let go, and relax. It’s hard when you can clearly see your H. being manipulated, and if that could stop, he might be more inclined to get his life—his real married life—back on track.



Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.