I have had to join into your thread as reading back over your posts I cannot believe similar our situ's are.. The things your H has said to you such as 'not ready to come back - right now' etc etc is like a mirror of my H...
My H says the same, he also will not give up seeing OW... in his words - at the moment !! But he also still wants me in his life...
It is so frustrating, but the best thing is to GAL as much as possible...
I have found that the best way not only for myself but in seeing my H come closer to me
