Wow, Hope. I am so happy to hear that your situation has taken such a positive turn. Just more proof that no matter how hopeless something may feel one day, anything is possible. I would love nothing more than for my H to start showing such signs of growing up - even if we ended up apart, I would still feel much better about it if he were to start being truthful to himself and maybe even to me, and I am sure you feel the same way. Good luck with everything, and stay focused on the positive!!