Yes, you're right, I had thought about leaving the area, but given the recent discussions we've had I seriously might change my mind about this. In the end, either he'll decide he wants a D. and I can deal with moving at that point, or, he will come back and we can have a fresh start. Thanks for your posts!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.